my musings

5 things I’m doing in 2020 to be just a bit better:  It’s the new year.  Hoorah for insurmountable resolutions that fail and make us feel just a bit worse than before.  Like, I’m going to work out every single day

Why do I feel not enough during the holidays? Your holiday mindset is important and often an overlooked part of the holiday season.  The holidays can be a rough time for well, most people.  While there are high highs, there are

Recently, I was thinking about the evolution of style, and everyday effort related tasks. Whether it be skincare, makeup, or even fitness. I thought about my middle-aged self and my fearless?, stylistically speaking misguided bravery to wear literally bright blue

I admit, me giving life advice seems a bit comical. In so many ways I blew up my life this past year or so. And not like in one field or area- the entire thing. It was the equivalent of

Instagram Versus Reality Instagram, it’s our favorite and least favorite space. It’s divided into two separate and distinct parties. The casual user who likes to post whatever photo of their dog or friends and family, at whatever time they wish, with

Courage, dear heart. I've always loved that saying. Not that I have a particular affinity for anything written by C.S. Lewis, but that saying shifted my thinking. I'm not a courageous person, I don't leap without looking, I can't throw

It's so easy to compare yourself to others, to imagine that they had it easier, better, or a more privileged way to success. And sometimes that's true, but really, it doesn't negate or disprove their hard work. I've been thinking about

I've gotten some DM's and some very kind comments glorifying my life, in the most kind of ways, highlighting how they want to be like me. #goals #butno I'm sorry, I absolutely think you have the wrong person. I don't say

I had someone admiring my rather unothordox methods of getting the shot on the streets of NYC.  They proceeded to ask me what it was for and I said my blog. They asked if that's what I did and I

Finding yourself is what life is all about. At some quasi young age we find something that makes us happy and passionate and we decide THIS IS it.. This is THE thing I need to be; this is THE thing